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For many, the Australian share house symbolises more than four walls and a roof.

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It is a rite of passage.

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A first step in the journey of adulthood.

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But as the housing crisis evolves, so too does the share house.

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Come with us as we look at the young Australians hoping to make the communal space a forever home.

During the past year, photographer Aishah Kenton set out to discover what share housing looks like today.

What she unearthed was a reinvention of the share house.

Not only a home for now, but potentially forever.

In 2021, home ownership fell by 14 per cent for Australians aged between 25 and 29 when compared to that same age group in 1971.

2023 marked Flatmates.com.au's busiest year on recordas more people turned to share housing.

And as Kenton saw, the share house is increasingly being embraced as an alternative to traditional home ownership and nuclear households.

Here's what she learnt from three Brisbane share houses.

Bella, Jack, Sahara and Rhett

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In inner city Brisbane, an old Queenslander with a large backyard is a sanctum for Bella Porras, Jack Greer, Sahara Bailey, RhettKleine, and therapy cat Harper.

All members of the home are neurodivergent.

Emphasis is put on making each member feel safe.

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Sahara hangs a mood board on her door so her roommates can respond to how she’s feeling, while all tenants let the others know before company comes over.

Bella says despite being initially worried about moving in, the experience had helped their obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD).

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"I've had to be like, ‘OK, people will clean up after themselves'," they say.

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"It’s not putting so much pressure on myself to be so tidy all the time."

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The home has opened up a world other than a traditional family home for Sahara.

"Why does it have to be this way?" she asks.

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“Why can’t you celebrate life every weekend and have a picnic with all of your housemates?

"Why can’t you have dinner and make your own makeshift family outside of your family?”

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Bella struggles to see themselves owning a home.

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"I think if we wanted to use our savings for something, it would be to travel and then come back to where we want," they say.

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“Rather than spending all our money on a house that we will end up having to stay in and pay off for the rest of our lives.”

Brooke, Teresa, and April

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ForBrooke Manning, Teresa Dowling and April Kuipers, share housing is just as much about community as it is convenience.

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"I think it's my favourite thing ever," Teresa says.

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"Like being able, any day of the week, (to) see my friends all the time."

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Life is punctuated in small acts of kindness, like packing each other's lunches or sharing dinner.

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"My favourite thing is when before bed, we'll boil the kettle and sit around and have a cup of tea and biscuits," Brooke says.

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"We do it pretty much every night."

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"It feels like family," April chimes in.

Lia, Nicholas, Maeve, Anna, Lucia, and William

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Family is a notion the home ofLia Ribeiro de Noronha, Nicholas Allison, Anna Jourdant, Maeve, William Bird and Lucía Vasquez is rewriting.

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With a mix of neurodivergent and queer roommates, the household says it feels more like a chosen family.

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"The concept of the nuclear family is so attached to a house," Lia says.

"I think that it's really interesting how that is evolving and developing because of the housing crisis."

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Nick, who is non-binary, says the experience has allowed them to explore the dynamics of being queer outside of the family structure.

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"I think that the share house experience, or just finding community, is so valuable to allowing yourself to be comfortable with who you are," they say.

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"I think it just helps you feel like you're allowed to be in the world more."

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"It's showed me that things that existence out of heteronormative norms is possible," Lia adds.

For Maeve's immigrant family, home ownership ensured security.

But this household is her chance to try something different.

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"I can belong in this country without owning a house," she says.

"I'm not a failure for not owning a house.

"I will simply just exist and live and that will be okay."

The reality of temporary spaces

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Kenton began her project in August 2023, flying back and forth from Brisbane to Melbourne to capture the households.

By the time it was completed,Bella, Jack, Sahara and Rhett's landlord had reclaimed the property and their lease was cut short.

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Brooke, Terese, and April had also disbanded and left the share home.

Throughout the series, Kenton sent back the photos she took and asked the households to describe their thoughts.

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If the photos depict a burgeoning community, their postscripts depict an equallyburgeoning vulnerability.

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Sacred.

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Exposed.

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Temporary.

These are the just some of the words Kenton collected back.

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While some of the tenants draw on the distress of a worsening rental crisis, other chose to focus on the shared movie nights and drinks on Friday in spite of looming instability.

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Throughout their collages, these self proclaimed "bootleg" households prove they have indeed re-invisaged family.

"These are my people," Lia writes on a household portrait next to scribbled flowers.

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In their musings, they aspire for a future where home ownership is no longer the end goal.

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"The share house is a seedling in a field set to be sown," Rhett writes.

"We young ones are rebuilding this world, by backyard fires, and share house dinner tables."

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They dream big, imagining their forever homes.

Surrounded by a chosen family that supports one another.

With interconnected spaces to map a lifetime in.

Even if this one is just...

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home for a time.

Credits

Words: (Nur) Aishah Kenton and Tessa Flemming

Photographer: (Nur)Aishah Kenton/ Oculi

Production: Tessa Flemming

The GreatCrumbling Australian Dream

This photo essay is part of a larger photojournalism project examining Australia's housing crisis.

The Great Crumbling Australian Dream is a collaboration between Oculi photographers and ABC News, with support from National Shelter.

The series was made possible with a Meta Australian News Fund grant and the Walkley Foundation.

Oculi is a collective of Australian photographers that offers a visual narrative of contemporary life in Australia and beyond.

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A new way forward

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The Goode fight

Louise Goode's fight for the place of "emotional comfort" she called home lasted a quarter of a century, until it was demolished in front of her as she screamed for help.

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Coming home to Country

Photojournalist Rachel Mounsey follows Warumungu traditional owners in Jurnkkurakurr (Tennant Creek) as they tell stories of generational housing displacement — and their ambitious plan to reclaim their home.

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Jo Waite slept here

Comic artist Jo Waite has spent her adult life renting and squatting in Melbourne's inner suburbs, watching gentrification unfold in real time. Now, she is drawing her old homes one by one — but the beauty of the grand homes hides the reality of life inside them for tenants in decades past.

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The Kelly gang's last stand

Photojournalist Sean Davey captures the crusade to save Port Melbourne's Barak Beacon Estate, and how a community united to highlight the plight of all public housing tenants.

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FAQs

What are the advantages or disadvantages of living with roommates? ›

You can save money on rent and living expenses, and you'll have someone to hang out with when you're feeling bored or lonely. On the other hand, you'll have to deal with potential conflicts and disagreements over things like cleaning and paying bills.

How often should a housemates partner stay over? ›

This is entirely up to the current flatmates to decide, probably based on their ability to tolerate the extra body in the home. As a rule, if a partner is staying over more than four nights a week, they are more or less living with you too.

What kind of expenses do roommates share and how do they divide those costs? ›

Assign every bill to a roommate

Rent is an obvious one, but there are others, including cable/internet, gas, and electric. Reminder: Being responsible for paying the cable bill doesn't mean you control the TV. By assigning each bill to a roommate, it splits up bill payment among the group rather than one single person.

Should your roommate tell you when someone is coming over? ›

You'll probably want to invite guests over at some point, and this is fine. However, let your roommate know you'll be having people over ahead of time. And before having more than a few people over, always ask for permission.

What are the advantages and disadvantages of co living? ›

Factors to consider include cost, flexibility, convenience, privacy, control over living space, and potential for conflict. While co-living spaces can offer more affordability, flexibility, and convenience, they may not provide the same level of privacy and control over living space as traditional housing options.

Is it better to live with or without roommates? ›

Living alone provides more privacy, freedom, and control over your space, which can be beneficial for those who value these aspects. On the other hand, having a roommate can help with shared expenses and offer companionship, especially for those who enjoy socialising.

How often should roommates have guests over? ›

There's no hard and fast rule about how often a roommate should have a guest. It's really dependent on what your needs are, and how often you're willing to put up with an extra human in your space. Perhaps weekends are fine, but you prefer not to have a disturbance on work or school nights.

What is the boyfriend rule for roommates? ›

25 Essential Roommate Rules You Should Have Before Moving in Together
  • Take Care of the Bills.
  • Don't Use Each Other's Things Without Asking.
  • Be Considerate about Movies, Music, and TV.
  • Realize You Do Not Have to Be Best Friends.
  • Do Not Let Minor Problems Become Major Resentments.
  • Always Communicate.

What is housemate syndrome? ›

Our romantic relationships usually start with a lot of passion and exciting intimacy but often times fades over time as the rigors of life kick in. Roommate syndrome is the term used to describe this dynamic in couples where their relationship has become an arrangement lacking romantic love and affection.

How much should a wife contribute financially? ›

Make a list of all your combined expenses: housing, taxes, insurance, utilities. Then talk salary. If you make $60,000 and your partner makes $40,000, then you should pay 60 percent of that total toward the shared expenses and your partner 40 percent.

Should marriage be 50/50 financially? ›

“I think it's almost not fair to split finances 50-50 without taking into account your partner's financial situation,” said Daigle, who is also a member of the CNBC Financial Advisor Council. “It's really important to get a better financial picture of what's going on with your significant other.”

Should wife pay half bills? ›

50-50 Bill Split

Splitting shared bills down the middle is one of the easiest approaches to a joint financial life. Each person pays half. This straightforward approach makes budgeting as a couple consistent. Each person pays half the rent, subscriptions or insurance from individual accounts.

How to politely ask a roommate to clean? ›

So long as they're receptive, try to be as specific as you can in terms of how well things should get cleaned. The better idea they have of your wishes, the more they can accommodate if they're a nice and considerate person. Additionally, it helps to mention why you like to keep things clean.

How do you tell a roommate to leave? ›

Provide a written notice: If your roommates do not agree to leave voluntarily, you can provide them with a written notice asking them to vacate the property. The notice should include the date by which they must leave and the reason for the request. Make sure to keep a copy of the notice for your records.

What is one advantage of living with a roommate or housemate? ›

If you're struggling to afford the cost of rent, utilities, and other household expenses, having a roommate can make it more affordable. Additionally, if you're moving to a new town for college or a job opportunity, having a roommate can provide companionship and a sense of community.

What are the advantages and disadvantages of living together? ›

For a lot of couples, living together can strengthen their bond, but it also comes with challenges. The benefits include better understanding and the opportunity to assess your compatibility. However, the drawbacks, such as potential relationship strain and difficulties in ending the partnership, can't be ignored.

What are two pros and two cons with rooming with friends? ›

Rooming with Your Best Friend: Pro's and Cons
  • Pro: You already know each other. ...
  • Con: You could miss out on making new friends. ...
  • Pro: You have the opportunity to grow even closer than you were before. ...
  • Con: Just because you are compatible as friends, doesn't necessarily mean you are compatible as roommates.
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What are the advantages and disadvantages of living in a dorm? ›

Dorm Living: Pros and Cons
  • Pro: Meet new people. This is probably the biggest perk of living in a dorm. ...
  • Pro: Bond with your roomie. ...
  • Pro: You never get lonely. ...
  • Pro: Helps familiarize yourself with campus. ...
  • Pro: RAs! ...
  • Cons: Shower shoes and communal bathrooms. ...
  • Cons: Rowdy-ness. ...
  • Cons: Never get alone time.

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